A Podcast for YOUR Life ...

Typical parenting and financial advice doesn’t always apply to single moms – people with partners just don’t get the challenges of going it alone. If you want to create financial security and parent with confidence and joy, as a single mom, this podcast is for you.

Debra Jacobs, Ed.M., is a financial and parent coach, former long-term preschool owner/teacher, and single mom. She understands that every part of your life affects every other part, and brings it all together with stories, empathy, and actionable money, parenting, and life advice.


Reducing expenses will help you create the life you want – but bringing in more money is equally important.

How can you create new income streams to save the money you need to realize your dream of becoming a single mother by choice, or to create the life you want for yourself and your kids?

It’s not easy, especially when you’re a single mom already pressed for time. But it’s possible, and you can do it.

In this episode, we review ways to raise quick money, to create longer-term side businesses, and to increase your salary.

Resources mentioned in this episode:


We all have money stories – thoughts that inform the way we approach our finances.

What are your stories? Are they holding you back from facing your financial situation and from working towards achieving your dreams?

In this episode, we go over 10 common limiting money stories – from scarcity to feeling like “the poor kid” to the Cinderella Syndrome, and more – and talk about ways to face these thoughts and begin writing new stories.

Changing your thoughts won’t magically change your life, but will open the path to actions that WILL result in major change.

Note: The money stories in this episode are numbered – but for some reason I skipped from 6 to 8. You’re not crazy – there’s no number 7!

Resources mentioned in this episode:

After working all day and taking care of your kids, the rest of life can feel overwhelming. 

From paying bills to doing the dishes to making the hundreds of decisions that you have to make as a parent and simply as an adult – life can feel out of control. Often we respond by ignoring things, which we all know leads to bigger problems in the long run. 

In this episode, we discuss five easy-to-implement tips for making your life run more smoothly – financially and otherwise.

Resources mentioned in the episode:



You really want a dog, or your kids are relentless in asking for one.

As a single mom, should you do it? Can you manage it between work and parenting your kids by yourself?

How much will it cost?

In this episode, we go over everything you need to think about before making the decision. We’ll also discuss things to think about if you already have a dog and you’re pregnant or about to adopt.

Resources mentioned in the episode:


Budgeting can feel scary, daunting, and time-consuming, and when you’re a single mom focusing on your job and your kids, it’s something you likely ignore.

But budgeting can actually be freeing. It can give you a structure for financial decisions that lightens your load.

In this episode, learn how to budget in a way that will work for you. Yes, you’ll have some initial set-up and leg work to do, but once you have the system in place, you won’t need to track your money every day or spend hours entering every little expense.

You’ll finally have an easy way to get on top of your finances!

Don’t forget – leave a review on iTunes, and drop a note at debra@moneysmartforlife.com to let me know, so I can enter you in a drawing for a free hour of coaching.

Resources mentioned in the episode:


If you have a teenager, or a younger child who will one day become a teenager, don’t miss this episode!

It’s full of important information and strategies for relationship-based parenting through the teen years.

Debra discusses:

– Ways to build and maintain strong relationships with your teen
– What to do when they lash out and say hurtful things
– The pressure of school and the crazy, toxic push towards college
– Sex, drugs, and your teenager
– When your teen lies to you
– Anxiety and teenagers
– The dangers of “rescuing” your teen

Here are links to resources mentioned in the episode:

Anne Fisher and the Family Dinner Project

Excellent Sheep by William Deresiewicz

The Semester School Network



Life changed for Kim Williams when she found herself pregnant as a sophomore in college. 

She went through a period of doubt and depression, then pulled herself up and did what she had to do to support herself and create a great life for her child. Kim finished school, got her MBA, and moved for the sake of support and then again for a job. She built community both on and off line.

Creator of the Experiencing Motherhood Single and Black podcast and community, Kim has an important and inspiring story to tell.

After searching to find single black moms who were podcasting and not finding any that were current, she decided to fill the gap by creating a podcast and building a community that not only supports each other online, but also offline.  Kim is very passionate about educating single moms so that they can live the life they desire without feeling alone on the journey of Single Motherhood, which can become so isolating.

Because of the platform, moms all around the world (single and married) have been able to change the way they think, implement strategies to improve their life and the life of their children, and make connections with other moms.

To connect with Kim, go to her website or find her on Instagram at singleblackmotherhood


As your kids get older, the cost of raising them increases.

They eat more, they may have expensive hobbies or passions, it costs more to buy them clothes. You’re more likely to overspend on older kids at the holidays, and it’s more expensive to take them on vacation.

In this episode, we talk about ways to cut some of those costs without compromising the quality of your life or your relationship with your kids.

Here’s a link to the free travel hacking course mentioned in the episode: ChooseFI Travel Rewards 101

Each month, Debra will choose one iTunes review of the podcast and offer the writer of that review a one-hour free coaching session (financial, parenting, or other single mom concerns). So go over to iTunes now and enter your review! Then send me a note letting me know you wrote the review, so I can get in touch with you if you’re chosen for the free session.


Raising children is expensive!

But there ARE ways to reduce the costs. By a lot!

In this episode, Debra shares ideas for saving on everything from daycare to diapers, food, toys, and more. Make sure you tune in next week for Part 2, about reducing the costs of raising older children. 

Links to some of the resources mentioned in the podcast:

Each month, Debra will choose one iTunes review of the podcast and offer the writer of that review a one-hour free coaching session (financial, parenting, or other single mom concerns). So go over to iTunes now and enter your review!


Are you considering becoming a single mother by choice? 

Sabiha Mustafa, a Certified Empowerment Coach and Mentor for single women longing to become moms, talks with Debra about all the ins and outs of making that decision. What are the common fears women have? What mindset shifts might be necessary? Will my kids be okay? What’s the process? The challenges – and joys – of single motherhood by choice are both significant. 

This episode is a must-listen if you are thinking about making this leap.

Sabiha’s path to motherhood has been transformational. It has brought so much happiness, joy, and love to her life that she has decided to help other single women realize their dream to be a mom without jeopardizing their fertility waiting for the right partner, or settling with the wrong partner out of pressure and fear.

Sabiha feels honored to guide and support women in their 20s to mid-40s to make the best decisions for their lives so they’re able to experience the joy of being a mom and live happy, fulfilling, and meaningful lives. She uses her coaching sills, her own experience of becoming a single mother, as well as her various other personal and professional transitions to help women succeed and thrive at every stage of this rewarding and life-changing journey. 

Starting on April 12, 2021, Sabiha will be hosting the Choosing Single Motherhood summit, a free, 5-day virtual event featuring over 10 experts. Register here to gain access to information about fertility treatments, choosing donor sperm, adoption, fertility nutrition, well being, managing emotions, and more.

Check out Sabiha’s website to learn more about her coaching and to contact her.




If you ache to stay home more with your child, but feel stuck because as a single mom you have to put food on the table, this episode is for you.

We’ll talk about ways to make that dream come true. It’s absolutely possible – with some creativity, hard work, and maybe some initial sacrifice.

Your kids won’t be kids for long, and their babyhood and childhood are so precious – and so fleeting. In this episode we’ll talk about ways you can to work fewer hours, cut expenses, and carve out more time to spend with your kids.

Here are links to podcasts mentioned in the episode:

Side Hustle Nation

Side Hustle School

Rebel Entrepreneur


None of us want to think about our own death, but planning for that possibility is SO important – especially for single moms. In this episode, Attorney Samantha Allen walks us through everything we need to do to protect our kids, from putting specific documents in place to choosing guardians to making our wishes known. Have your pen and paper or your notes app ready – you’re going to need them!

You’ll learn about the three documents to put in place before your child is even born, the process of choosing guardians, the difference between a will and a trust, the reasons you should put your wishes in writing – even in a document that may not be legally binding – and more.

Sam is a Massachusetts Attorney, Counselor at Law, and owner of Law Mom, LLC. Her legal experience started at a District Courthouse; from there, she worked for a big law firm in Boston, which led her to opening her general practice law firm. She felt that there was something more that she needed to do, but hadn’t figured it out yet. In 2019, the message became clear.

Have you ever thought to yourself, “I am young” or “I am healthy, I don’t need an estate plan?” Even as an attorney, the last thing Sam wanted to think about was an estate plan.

But after a healthy pregnancy, at age 33, Sam became deathly ill and almost lost her life after giving birth. After her own experience and learning that approximately 69% of parents do not have an estate plan for their family, she opened Law Mom, LLC. Law Mom is a Massachusetts Estate Planning Firm with a modern legal approach – focused on your specific family dynamic, keeping your family out of court and conflict.

You can reach Sam through her website or by phone at 781-277-4488.


Don’t miss this episode! Our first ever guest, Heather Wells, has an amazing and inspiring story to tell.

Heather Wells is a single mom of three children and creator of The Single Mom Blog and Podcast. After years of struggling as a single mother on government assistance programs, she was finally able to achieve self-sufficiency by starting her own business working from home. With a thriving consultant business, she now also focuses on helping other single mothers develop the skills and mindsets to live their best lives.

Heather shares her journey raising twins with special needs, shifting her mindset and her circumstances after eight years feeling stuck on public assistance, and facing down a scary medical diagnosis.

To contact Heather or access her content, click on the links above or email her at info@thesinglemomblog.com.

For links to previous episodes, visit the podcast on itunes, Spreaker, or Spotify, or search for Money, Parenting, and Life for Single Moms wherever you listen to podcasts.